In Roman Mythology, Venus was the goddess of love, sex, beauty, prosperity, desire, and fertility. She was the embodiment of persuasive female charm among the gods. Venus was born of sea-foam, representing the soft principle in Roman mythology, which gives balance to the world. She tempered the "masculine" energy by uniting males and females through affection. She believed in virtuous relationships, and would turn sex into something beautiful, rather than wicked. Roman brides would offer her a gift before weddings in order to guarentee a beautiful wedding and prosperous marriage. Venus is known for her "affairs"; one of them was with Mars, the god of war. She had various children with various gods as well as mortals in roman mythology. One of her children was Cupid, the god of desire, love, attraction, and affection. (There were times when she sent Cupid on missions to strike another with his arrow of desire). To the Romans, she was considered the "mother" of the Romans because of her supposed birth to King Aeneas, who was said to have founded Rome. Because of her natural beauty and sexual nature, she is usually depicted nude. She is a popular figure in the world of art, and was especially popular during the renaissance of the 20th century.
Astronomically, Venus is the second planet from the sun. It has no natural satelite, and is the brightest planet in the solar system. This planet, according to experts can even be seen during broad daylight. In the west, it rises before the sun and is known to many as the "morning star". In the east, it shines just after sunset and is therefore known as the "evening star". Venus has phases like the moon because the orbit of Venus is between the Earth and the sun. Venus is the closest planet to the earth. Venus is also the hottest planet in our solar system, even more than the planet Mercury that is the closest to the sun. This is caused by heat being trapped in the clouds surrounding Venus, causing a "greenhouse effect". Even Venus's craters are typically named after females.
Astrologically, Venus is the most popular "planet" explored by people. This is because Venus astrologically is the planet of love, beauty, attraction, artistic appreciation, and pleasure. It is also the planet of money and values. These are obviously common topics because we encounter these things in our lives more often, right? Venus is considered an "inner" planet (a planet that is closest to the earth, influencing humans on a more personal level) and thus is called a "personal" planet. Personal planets in astrology are planets that represent our ability to extend ourselves to the world. Venus represents femininity. Because of this, women will more readily embrace this energy than men will. In fact, men may project his own Venusian energies on the women he is attracted to. Venus also represents female sexuality, mainly because Venus represents pleasure and love. This is receptive sexual energy, which is found more often in sensual foreplay. It can even represent our kissing style as well as our need for affection from family and friendships. While women tend to own up to their need for love and pleasure in a relationship, men may also benefit from understanding this "softer" side to themselves. After all, without Venus we can never feel attractive and comfortable with each other. That is very important if you want a good friendship and/or romantic/sexual relationship with another. Venus represents our aphrodisiac; which makes us feel weak in the knees with desire. But remember, Venus doesn't take action; it arouses actions in others (the "action" energy is more of a Marsian energy). It's our "sex appeal", even if we are not "sexual". Venus is not direct...it is indirect, indicating only through gestures of desire or appreciation. Venus is the planet that comes after the conscious sun, the sub-conscious moon, and the communicative Mercury. Once we have developed these sides to ourselves, we then begin to develop relationships in the world. Without Venus we cannot have peace and love in the world. Without Venus we cannot enjoy the "fruits" of our labor. Venus gives us the ability to "love"...not the kind of love that the moon provides, which is when you deeply understand a person's feelings and care for them. Venus is astrologically a lighter planet than the moon and allows us to simply "love" one another even if we don't know or understand each other on a deeper level. Without Venus we can't have friends; neither can we work well in a partnership. In romantic situations, it represents what we are physically attracted to in a person (especially what men are attracted to in a woman). It represents our "art of seduction", our advertisement, or our flirty and charming sides. For females, it may be an attractive quality they value in themselves. And yet, it can also represent a quality we may long to have (especially females), making Venus a planet of jealousies. Venus is also representative of qualities we value in close friends. It represents our tastes; our idea and appreciation for beauty. It represents the side of us that simply wants to relax and enjoy. It can influence how we dress, in order to be attractive in social situations. Venus is the planet that describes our appreciation for the finer things in life; for women it may be an attractive blouse or skirt...for a man an attractive car or even an attractive woman. It also includes how we spend and handle money when we get our hands on it. It also influences our social behavior. In all relationships, whether friendships, romantic, and even sexual relationships, Venus is the final judge of whom we should be relating. When Venus is strong in a person's natal chart, the native is attractive and affectionate. Venus will bless these people with the ability to keep the peace in every situation. Appreciating the sensual parts of life come easy to them and they understand the principle of love. They are blessed with popularity and/or adoration from close friends and lovers. And they also tend to have strong artistic appreciation. Women with this position carry a balanced attitude towards life, being able to balance both their feminine and masculine energies. Men with this kind of energy feel comfortable around women and will be more smooth and charming in romance. If Venus is too strong, it can present a person that is lazy and overly indulgent. This kind of person might be superficial and easily infatuated by people and things. They can also be extremely vain and overly concerned with their appearance physically and/or socially. They could be so receptive, that they expect to be "given" things rather than give. They get too comfortable in relationships and they struggle to see the "storms" that are coming their way. They struggle to be independent and alone, always needing to be around lovers or friends. They also become manipulative, using charm to get out of situations that may need direct addressing. They can tease/manipulate others to believing attraction is there when it is not. In relationships, they get so caught up in romancing and the sensual arousal that they don't actually take sexual action. (This depends on other energies in the chart). If Venusian energy is blocked, natives will often cause more chaos then peace. They might struggle to show affection to others and they struggle to be "receptive". This is an energy that would rather charge impatiently or inconsiderately towards anything they want. They end up lacking an appreciation for the sensual things in life and struggle to actually enjoy the "fruits" of their labor. With blocked energy pain (whether physical or critical) is confused with pleasure, and there is some "tough love" with the energy of this position. Females with blocked Venusian energy may feel different from other women; whether they are extremely "tomboyish" or extremely "girlish", they tend to lack the "softness" that Venus would prefer. Men with blocked Venusian energy struggle to feel comfortable around women and feel like their world and the world of women are just too far apart. They are more intolerant of others and more readily critical of friends and lovers. They have a tendency to be selfish and/or attract people who are selfish. They are even attracted to dangerous associations. Even for a bad position, Venus is considered a "benefic" planet, and therefore even people with uncomfortable Venusian energy can still find love in the world. :)
Note: For homosexual lovers, the same principles of feminine energy still applies to them. Homosexual men tend to attract female friends through Venus, but are also more willing to embrace their own Venusian energies. Females still attract female associates through Venus, for Venus is the feminine principle. Therefore lesbians might simply be attracted sexually to that feminine principle. Remember, all love expressions are influenced by Venus, no matter one's sexuality.
So, are you curious to know what signs Venus will feel more comfortable in, as well as the signs that she will struggle to be comfortable in? Let us examine the following descriptions.
Venus in Taurus-The Bull of Venus
Venus+Taurus=SENSUAL LOVE! Dignity(+5)
The bull (or should I say the cow) in ancient times has often said to represent pleasure and fertility. This might be because cows (or the bulls) have always provided humans with nourishments such as milk and other delicacies. The cow is also a symbol of femininity, as well as calmness and peace. Cattle have a well developed sense of taste; they have at least 20,000 taste buds! They mostly enjoy sweet or salty tasting foods and avoid foods that are too bitter. Their taste buds also are useful during mating in some species of cattle. For bulls, they can determine whether a female is ready to mate. They have senses that can smell even the smallest grain of salt or sugar. Cattle use their skin and muzzle to understand environments. Cattle (particularly cows) are known to form close bonds with one another; they form best friends with certain individual cows. Researchers say that when they form friendships, they do everything with their close circle of "friends", even help groom one another. They have a strong social hierarchy, and if one bull does not comply, they will isolate that bull. In order to make "friends", a new cow would have to network and build a relationship with the cows in order to become apart of the herd. When a bull is sexually attracted to a female, he will use taste to determine her receptivity. He usually moves calmly towards her (he might attempt to eat from the same space or nuzzle her). He may also rest his head on her rump to test to see if she will stand for him. During a cow's estrous cycle, she tends to go in search of a mate. She tends to be restless, licking a lot or setting her head on the bull of her choice. The body language is very important when it comes to cattles mating with one another.
Venus is in domicile in Taurus. Venus, the planet of love, is positioned in Taurus, the sign of pleasure, peace, and security. And boy does Taurus love peace! In a sign like this, Venus can feel really comfortable and enjoy pleasure in this sign. In this sign, its tastes are refined and its senses are strong for the things it enjoys. Gaining love is easy in this sign because in this sign there is physical and/or sensual beauty and affection. In this sign, Venus always feels attractive or valuable. How does this play out when we combine these energies? The natives with this position are born lovers. When they love something, they love it for life. They are pleasure seeking in all aspects of life...and they know how to give pleasure to their lovers. They make stable and loyal partners and friends. They have strong taste buds; they can taste food all the way down to the ingredients. Not only do they have strong taste buds; they have strong tastes in general. They have a good eye for color and know how to accentuate their bodies (even the men with this placement). These people are peace-loving; no drama for these natives! They need time to relax and enjoy creature comforts. They need to be surrounded by family and close friends. They are highly affectionate, even giving good friends hugs/kisses according to culture. The females with this position tend to be highly sensual and carry themselves with confident ease. Many of them are physically beautiful and they know it. Even the ones with this position that may not feel as attractive, know how to adorn themselves to look attractive and they are generally polite and sweet natured, especially to the ones they love. There are several Venus in Taurus females that may care less about accentuation/adornments, but appreciate being "natural" and displaying their natural charms or beauty. Males with this position understand the art of romance. They are traditional in their "wooing" tactics and "woo" lovers with the flowers and the candy. They are also very sensual...they love a good hug and a good kiss. They also don't mind a little rubbing or caressing, even on a first date. All natives with this position believe in relationships built on trust; they don't like when that trust is breached. If they are the ones that have breached that trust, they will do everything they can to gain that trust back. They know valuable friends and lovers when they see them and they will not be willing to give you up that easily. They are honest in their dealings with others, and are always considerate of their environment. They appreciate art, especially art that appeals to their senses. Music has a strong affinity with the sign of Taurus. These people can be found humming a tune to themselves (even singing) or listening to a soothing sound as they go about their daily lives. Gardening also has a strong affinity with this energy, and many Venus in Taurus natives enjoy being surrounded by nature.
The downside to this position is that the natives tend to be too concerned with their appearance. This can sometimes make them vain. The females tend to be conceited and will expect to be given things rather than give. They have a tendency to date people simply because of the money or the things their lovers can provide. The men can be overly superficial, more concerned about the appearance of a person, and they overlook the signs that show who the person is on the inside. (This of course depends on other energies in the chart). They have a tendency to be materialistic and when they get their hands on money, they sometimes can't control themselves. They have to have EVERYTHING. They have a tendency to be overly indulgent. They love to eat and they have to be careful that this doesn't effect their health. They also tend to have high quality taste and can be really snobby when food or drink isn't to their liking. In fact, they can be snobby in general. They have to live in comfortable surroundings, have high quality things, and they also tend to be snobby with the lovers and friends that they choose. They tend to stick to friends they've known for a long time or friends that may seem to have a lot of money. They don't do well in environments where they are unfamiliar with people. They have a hard time facing problems in their lives; they would rather avoid a situation that is heated, even if they did something wrong. When their security in relationships are threatened, their jealousy can be the ugliest side to them. They must learn to focus less on their appearance (and the appearance of others) and more on the person they are within. (Depending on other energies in the chart this may be realized). In order to do this, they have to face both the beautiful and the "ugly" sides in themselves and others, as well as embrace it. Don't get too comfortable with getting things from others...try to be more generous with your finances. This way you can show the ones you love how much you truly appreciate them. Avoid overindulging in food, drinking, and sex. Their flirting tactics involve tingling suitor's physical senses through body to body contact. When they are satisfied with you, they may even give a little hum (especially females). Males may give you gifts to let you know they desire you. They may even attempt to sing to you (even if they can't sing). Their kissing style is purely sensual and moist. Males may kiss on other parts of the body. They may give really big hugs. They may rub or gently squeeze you. Their lips also may pucker, even when they are not actually kissing you. They tend to be jealous of those who are richer or better looking than they are.
You may relate to this description if you have Venus (planet of love and pleasure) in the 2nd house (house of material possessions, self-worth, and talents). If you have signs such as Aries, Scorpio, or Virgo in your chart, this may tame your Venusian energy.
If you have negative aspects to Venus or Venus is accidentally debilitated by house placement, you have more setbacks when trying to gain Venusian benefits.
Taurus is a fixed sign and an earth sign.
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And its Dignities and Debilities
Venus in Taurus Native:
Ariana Grande
IVenus in Taurus Native:
Johnny Depp
Venus in Libra-The Scales of Venus
Venus+Libra=CONSIDERATE LOVE! Dignity(+5)
Scales are a measuring tool used to measure the weight of things. Scales were originally made with two plates on one side, capable of weighing one object against another object. In ancient times, scales were useful for bartering and trade. The weight of something could determine the value or the price of the object. Scales in ancient Greece and Rome were always representative of justice, grace, and fairness because it was the most accurate form of measurement for measuring weight value. Today, most physical scales are electronic, using calculations through digits to understand the weight of things. Not all scales are physical; there are also scales that we make in our own minds to weigh the value of things. There are even music scales and color scales used to help identify certain data. They can come in all shapes and sizes, and in all colors. Scales are one of the best tools to use for considering the value of things. The scales in astrology is a rare zodiac sign, in the fact that it is representative of an object rather than a living being. All scales, whether objects or mental ideas, can only operate when others are involved. It does not function on its own accord. The more equal the weight of things, the more balanced the scale becomes.
Venus is considered in domicile in the sign of Libra. Venus (the planet of love and pleasure) is now in the sign of Libra (representative of fairness, cooperation, and partnerships). In this sign, love is not shown in physical ways like in the sign of Taurus. Yet, the love that Venus in Libra gives is still very satisfying. Venus is in a sign that is graceful, sociable, considerate, cooperative, and fair. In this sign, everything is done beautifully! There is peace through harmony here as well as a need for fairness. In this sign, Venus is more than physically attractive; here there is an attractive mind with an attractive character. In this sign, Venus just doesn't want love...it needs love especially from those around it. And the best part is this energy is a considerate one, with Venus feeling just as satisfied when GIVING love in return. The natives with this position have a strong need for love. They enjoy being on a "team", especially where everyone is getting along. They love balance, peace, and harmony. They want everyone in the world to get along and simply be at peace with one another. They are proponents of justice and fairness. Inequalities sadden them; this is an energy that doesn't want anyone to feel left out of life. When it comes to social functions or events, they are popular because they always include everyone in their social circle. Don't misunderstand...though they are inclusive, they are very selective when it comes to their associates and are very good judges of character. They simply have a fair-minded view of things. They try to be considerate of the feelings of others, while considering their own feelings on matters. In relationships they are always concerned with their partner's happiness. They will do whatever it takes to please their partner, especially if they find this partner be a valuable asset to their life. They are suckers for romance and beauty. Happy endings where everyone finds their true love is ideal for them. They are highly aesthetic. They especially appreciate art that has some sort of form or arrangement. They may enjoy classical orchastrated music and or a beautiful sculpture. Dancing, especially Ballet, has always had an affinity with the sign of Libra. They might even appreciate flower arrangements and beautiful party decorations. Speaking of parties, they are very good at arranging social functions. Wedding arrangements are especially their forte. Even if these natives are not physically attractive (or even if they are unconcerned with their physical appearance), they believe in having social manners and handling things with tact. Graceful social characteristics are more attractive to them (especially if they are male). Venus in Libra females tend to be very mannerable and charming. They tend to have a large circle of friends (and admirers) because they are generally kind to everyone. They are always well arranged in dress, never wearing too less or too much. They have a tendency to wear lighter or pastel colors. Venus in Libra males tend to be charming, considerate, and peace-loving. They are generally well liked by the people around them. They make very good friends, always including their friends in every social function (they may even enjoy double dating). They always consider social graces from themselves and others. Romantically, they tend to give their lovers the finest things they have to offer. Yet, they are not as easy to take advantage of as they may seem. When these natives give, they expect the ones they love to also give when they need it. In the end, their just and considerate tactics are used to maintain peace and harmony in their life. They love to meditate, and may enjoy practices such as yoga to ease their minds and find inner harmony.
The downside to this position is that Venus in Libra natives can be a little too concerned with social graces. This makes them very stuck up and snobby. They are usually polite to everyone...but may not necessarily like the people they are polite to, and this makes them seem phony. They can be really judgmental and superficial, judging others solely on how they appear or come across to others. They love their friends...but unfortunately they may rely on their friends to help them decide who they should like or shouldn't like, rather than deciding for themselves. In partnerships, they always tend to keep score in relationships. They can sometimes be manipulative, giving you things in the hopes of getting something of equal value in return. This can make them very difficult to please in the long run. They can be lazy, and don't want to tend to the emotional and physical needs in their relationships. If they party and socialize too much, it may interfere with the more important things in life (this depends on other energies in the chart). They hate drama, and they tend to manipulate or turn their nose up when others attack them. They may even project their issues onto their partners, refusing to address the issues in their personal relationships. The females with Venus in Libra tend to be highly judgmental and stuck up, especially when it comes to lovers. They may think very highly of themselves, and may set their value with the values of their suitors. The males with this position can be very superficial, often judging others based upon how they look or carry themselves, but may overlook the more important things such as the emotional part of an individual. Venus in Libra natives must learn to accept people as they are instead of as they want others to be. Don't be so quick to judge others; they may be more valuable than they appear. Just because a person does not give in the way that you give does not mean they aren't giving. You are very considerate and you should learn to extend this quality to the emotional feelings of others. Learn to set aside time for yourself instead of socializing all the time. This is the only way you can understand your own faults, rather than project them. It's not enough to be prepared for the cost of things by budgeting and balancing; try not to let your expensive tastes and need for socializing interfere with the practical parts of your life. Flirting tactics include showering love interests with courteous and clever compliments. Males may put their arm around you. Males may also offer you to dance with them (even if they can't dance). They may even play an instrument for you to show how much they care. The kissing style of these natives are smooth and graceful. The atmosphere for kissing will usually be "perfect". They may gently touch your hands (or even hold them). They may gently touch or hold your chin up (especially while kissing you). These natives tend to be jealous when someone is more loved among their friends/lovers. They become even more envious of others when they do not have a friend or lover.
You may relate to this description if you have Venus (planet of love and pleasure) in the 7th house (house of partnerships). If you have planets in Aries, Scorpio, or Virgo in your natal chart this may tame some of your Venusian energies.
If you have negative aspects to Venus or Venus is accidentally debilitated by house placement, you may have more setbacks in gaining the benefits of Venus.
Libra is a cardinal sign and an air sign.
Venus in Pisces-The Fish of Venus
Venus+Pisces=Magical Love! Dignity(+4)
The fish in astrology are representative of dreams, illusions, and creativity. Fish are aquatic creatures, limbless and soft-bodied, with the ability to easily propel through water. Although they are cold-blooded, some fish are able to change their body temperature to meet their environment. The fish "feel" through vibrations to determine the atmosphere around them. Fish often gather in "schools" or "shoals", which is typically a behavior involving stayling close with one another in order to protect themselves from outside predators. Aggregation is another way that fish gather, and its usually for the sake of obtaining the same source of food or the search for nesting sites. Fish use this "following" precedure in order to gain benefits. Fish are very susceptible to the streams of water; they move where the water moves them. To humans, Fish are beautiful because of their vast amount of colors and shapes. They are also considered one of the easiest "pets" to deal with and soothing to watch. Many researchers say having fish as pets can help reduce stress. Fish have always been popular symbols in art culture, especially religious or spiritual art. Many cultures consider fish to be an indication of an "other-worldly" connection. A fish's mating style can vary according to the type of fish they are, as well as their environment. Fish are highly vulnerable to their environment, and can show mating interest through mimicking behaviors to manipulative behaviors. Their "kisses" are used for more than just mating; their "lips" are one of the ways that they get many of the things that they want. These manipulative qualities of the fish have often been of interest in folklore. The mermaid (also known as the siren of the sea) is part human and part fish, usually representing a very beautiful maiden who manipulates people (especially men) to be drawn to them, only to devour them in the end. In some cases, however, mermaids were considered beneficent for anyone who came across them and they are also depicted as creatures who easily fall in love with humans.
Venus is considered exalted in the sign of Pisces. So imagine this: Venus, the planet of love is now in Pisces, the sign of dreams, visions, and creativity. Venus is also in a sign characteristic of compassion and universal love. Venus is of course not in domicile in this sign, as the sign of Pisces is not as "physical" or "superficial" as Venus is. However, in this sign Venus has the potential to actually do something more with its love...to spread its love through acts of compassion to the entire world. In this sign, Venus finds love to be magical, seeing love as the pathway into a world where people can find true peace and serenity. In this world, there is true bliss...no need to do anything except dream and indulge in the sensations of love. In this world love is a dream, and dreams do come true. The combination of these two energies creates "ultimate love energy", where the native is in love with love itself, and sees love as more than a tool for physical satisfaction. The natives of this position understand that love is a feeling, and when they love someone or something, they love unconditionally. They don't need anything fancy; they just need to know that whatever they love will always make them feel safe. While some might feel these natives are unrealistic and gullible when it comes to love, in many ways their experiences with loving the world has made them wise. They understand that true love is found when you have love in your own heart. They believe that love can overcome anything. Love conquers all. And because of this, people yearn to be around these natives. They are extremely aesthetic, seeing anything and everything as a form of art. If anyone can see the beauty in everything, it is definitely a Venus in Pisces native. They can see the good in any person, even if that person does not meet everyone else's standards. It's not that they don't dislike anything...it's just that they are not quick to dismiss people (or things). For these natives there is always potential! Venus in Pisces natives bring their creative visions into everything they do, and they want to create the ultimate fantasy in relationships. They are gentle with their lovers and sensitive to the needs of those around them. They are sacrificial in love, giving up everything for the sake of gaining love from other people (this depends on other energies in the chart). The females with Venus positioned in Pisces are very gentle and passive in relationships. In every other area of their life they may be highly independent and strong, but when it comes to love and friendship they are shy and docile. The males with this position also may be extremely assertive in other areas of life, but when it comes to love they tend to be shy, even withdrawn, and handle women gently. The males with this position like women who seem really cute, innocent, and accepting. All natives with this position believe in soulmates and often times have a soul connection with friends and lovers. Because of this, natives with this energy can almost feel what their lovers and friends are feeling. They are always there to help a friend (or lover) in pain or need. They are attracted to the underdog, typically the ones that other people overlook.
With every position in astrology, there is always a downside. The downside with this position is that the energies of this native cannot see their lovers or friends realistically. They are long suffering, still believing that change will happen, only to be disappointed in the end. Pisces is ruled by the planets Neptune and Jupiter. The Neptunian quality of this position is characterized by an illusionary energy. The Jupitarian quality of this position is characterized by a strong sense of optimisim and idealism. These natives tend to see what they want to see in relationships, rather than what is really there. They have an ideal view of love, which can be very endearing. However, their inability to see things realistically can honestly make their expectations too high for those around them. They expect others to meet their fantasy, and when others don't they become manipulative and/or distant. They hate dealing with issues...and instead of addressing the issues they would rather run or act as a victim. While very compassionate on the inside, they are so sensitive to their environment that they cannot handle when the ones they love are unhappy. With any sort of disruption of their "perfect fantasy", they have a tendency to suddenly disappear from those around them. Many of them are better at creating a fantasy of love, rather than actually being in a physical relationship. In fact, they are innocent when it comes to love making and you'd be surprised to know they don't have much experience in this area of life. They can be really receptive, hardly giving anything tangible to a relationship. This can make them come across very cold. They are very impressionable. It's easy for others to manipulate their feelings and take advantage of them, especially when they are unhappy. While they do enjoy being around the "underdogs", they prefer to be with friends that do not draw undo attention to themselves. Any sign of aggression or "differences" from their associates can make them feel very uncomfortable. They themselves may be extremely loud and obnoxious...but they want friends and lovers they can run to and escape to from the outside world. Deep down, they are very picky when it comes to their associates, refusing to admit this side to themselves. They are difficult in many ways to satisfy because they are so sensitive. While they make no open demands, people often feel as if they're walking on eggshells in order to avoid breaking their "fragile" hearts. They can be unreliable and they are not interested in meeting any sort of "relationship" demand. When pressured to do so, they become even more withdrawn. Because they isolate themselves from others, in the end, many Venus in Pisces natives often feel alone. They must learn to face the real world and see people realistically. This can be achieved by using your intuitive and compassionate abilities. Be cognizant of your addictions; try to avoid getting addicted to debilitating substances such as drugs or overly indulging in alcohol. Beware of promising others the image of a fantasy...be sure that you can live up to your promises. It's good that you see the potential of others, but it's even better when you simply accept people as they are rather than what you want them to be. Don't expect from others what you are not willing to give. When you isolate yourself from others, you will leave the ones you love to feel unloved. Love is beautiful, and it's more beautiful when you accept the negatives with the positives. Flirting tactics include a gentle hug and kiss. Their kissing style is very light and sweet, with a gentle touch. Females may behave "innocently" and may show you openly how impressed they are with "oohs and ahhs". Males may hold your hand and whisper "sweet nothings" in your ear. These natives may take you to their most private hideout. They may dance with you in private, sing to you in private, or play a private song for you. They tend to be "starry eyed" when they are in love. Even if you don't care for them the way they care for you, they will sacrifice themselves (whether physically or romantically), for your happiness. They have tendencies to daydream when they are in love. They have a tendency to be envious of those around them; they long to be loved and adored by others and do not like when that is taken away from them.
You may relate to this description if you have Venus (planet of love and pleasure) in the 12th house (house of secrets, the hidden, confusion, and understanding). If you have planets in Aries, Virgo, or Scorpio in your natal chart, this may tame some of your Venusian energies.
If you have negative aspects to Venus, Jupiter, or Neptune (oppositions/squares), planets in signs that Jupiter and Neptune do not agree with (Gemini, Virgo, Capricorn, or Aquarius); Jupiter or Neptune are in debilitating signs, or Jupiter and/or Neptune is accidentally debilitated by house placement, then you may have more setbacks when trying to gain Venusian benefits.
Pisces is a mutable sign and a water sign.
Venus in Libra Native:
Hilary Duff
Venus in Libra Native:
Nick Jonas
Venus in Pisces Native:
Celine Dion
Venus in Pisces Native:
Orlando Bloom about you.
Venus in Virgo-The Virgans of Venus
Venus+Virgo=Practical Love Debility(-4)
The Virgan in astrology is symbolized by a Goddess named Dike, who once lived at a time when humans were "perfect". Disgusted by humans becoming more unrighteous and unpure, she spread her bird like wings into the mountains, and eventually ascended to the heavens to be immortal. Virgo is not necessarily representive of sexual virginity. The sign of Virgo is mostly representative of "purity" and "perfection". This sign represents the qualities of a critical and analytical mind, in order to reach perfection.
Virgo's symbol is not solely representative of a human being; it is also representative of a "bird", thus creating the image of an "angel-like" figure. For the sake of this description, I will be using birds as the icon for this segment. Birds have always represented purity and divinity. Birds are winged creatures with light, yet strong bones. While not every bird is capable of flying, many of them also have the ability to swim making birds one of the most adaptable creatures. Birds are very clever at getting food, eating what is available to them. But birds are very picky when it comes to food. They peck at their food looking for the more edible parts of it. While they are picky about what they eat, when they find something edible they do have a tendency to overeat. Many believe that when birds find a mate, they stick to their mates for life. While this may not be the case in every scenerio, they do last longer with their mates in comparison to most animal species. Researchers say that birds do this because it is more practical; birds survive better together than apart. Male birds are known for being colorful, using their colorful wings and their "singing" sounds to woo their female counterparts. Male birds will often times "share" their food with their mate of interest. While some female birds have color, most female birds are bland, and often take the role of being "selective" of their mates. Birds mostly stick with their own kinds, unless they find shelter or food near other species. Birds are highly sociable, and communicate to other birds both vocally and physically. They are known to flap their wings and peck as communicative signals. Flirting tactics may include helping or communicating to the other party all the "details" they've noticed. Kissing style is done in a "pecking" style, yet surprisingly sensual.
Venus is considered falling in the sign of Virgo, the sign that is opposite the sign of Pisces. Many may wonder why Venus is exalted in a sign based on illusions and falling in a sign that sees love realistically. Let me explain what a falling position entails. In an exalted position, the planet feels a burst of energy...which means the energy will be very focused on "expressing", usually doing this in a way that may seem to be on a level that is extreme or exaggerated. In a falling position, there is a lack of energy towards the planet and a fear of expressing energy. The planet needs the support of outsiders in order to gain the energy necessary for development. This is what Venus will experience in the sign of Virgo. Virgo is a logical sign; characterized by its analytical, critical, humble, and realistic qualities. Venus is the planet of love and pleasure, seeking to relax and enjoy the finer things in life. In this sign, Venus struggles to relax...in fact there is a lot of nervous energy in this sign. The native become caught between being logical and showing love. In this sign, Venus struggles to find the romance behind the logic. In this sign, Venus is concerned with its flaws rather than its beautiful qualities. The combination of these energies indicates that a person may be critical and analytical in their approach to love. These natives are hard on themselves; they never think they look good enough and are quick to see the flaws. Sadly, they are also very hard on the ones they love as well, constantly picking their friends apart as well as their lovers. While these lovers are very self serving, this self-seving attitude makes it very difficult for them to enjoy things, especially in relationships. They often feel very uncomfortable showing love. It's not that they don't love the ones closest to them...the fact is Venus in Virgo may deeply love an individual. But the need to be realistic in their approach to love makes it difficult to express this soft side. As a result, they can be hard to get close to. They can be very stiff in social situations...possibly the only one not dancing at a party (or dancing awkwardly), as well as the only one criticizing the social event. This also makes it difficult for the people around them to relax. They have a tendency to over-intellectualize their relationships with others. They tend to show love by paying attention to all your "details", and expect that you will appreciate the "little" things they do. They are hard to impress, unlike their Venus in Pisces opposite. They only appreciate "humble" acts of love and even then they struggle to openly display their appreciation. While in some instances they may not even notice (or appreciate) the things others have done for them, they ironically expect others to appreciate and notice the little things they do. Their appreciation for the arts is shown by criticizing art they do not deem is "right". They struggle to appreciate music, art, and even beauty for what it is. In fact, they struggle to see the beauty in everything! Females with this position tend to be much pickier when it comes to their associates. No matter their style, they tend to have everything in place. Women with this position are very reserved (possibly a bit stiff) and they love to tease their friends with remarks. This can also be seen when they are in love. Males with this position, though not as picky with their associates, are highly critical of those around them. They tend to see love as "useless" or "non-existant". They are certainly not romantics. This usually comes from a lack of trust in love, possibly from previous disappointments. Conversly, these natives may try to force themselves to be the perfect lovers and may be very hard on themselves when they do not meet certain expectations. Natives with this position must learn to let go of the petty details, and try to focus on the ones they love. This can be achieved by considering the feelings of others as well as your own feelings. Do not ignore the feelings of others. It's good that you are realistic...but there is nothing wrong with letting love be your guide. Learn to let go and enjoy the fruits of your labor for a change. Once you learn to see the beauty in love rather than the flaws, you will have more fulfilling relationships. They may be jealous of those who seem "perfect", in accordance with their idea of perfection. They are easily jealous of people who have an easier life.
There are several positives that come with this position. As I have mentioned, this energy is reflective of a highly self-serving individual. They are always there when you need them. While they can be picky in choosing their associates, once they like you they will cherish you for life. They see beauty differently than others. They may notice the very little things that are beautiful that others may not notice. They are realistic in love, and thus their expectations are surprisingly achievable. Most people who are around them often feel like they should of known these people all their life because they are willing to put time and effort to building a real relationship. And once they do let go and enjoy, they have a sensual side. With a detailed mind like theirs, they know how to tend to all of your little weak spots, making them seem like masters in the art of love. The best part is that they never let love interfere with taking care of the realistic parts of a relationship. This makes them very dependable. They don't run away from problems; in fact their aim is to solve their issues. With Virgo being ruled by Mercury, Venus in Virgo natives are intelligent and always have a solution to relationship problems. The males with this position may not trust love, but when they do find someone to share their life with, they can be very generous with their time and money. Unlike most men in courtship, they see the beauty in "humility" and prefer to see the "little" things that make their lovers beautiful. They are very honest with their lovers and prefer not to manipulate others to get what they want. (This depends on other energies in the chart). Women with this position are intelligent and hard working, which can be a real charm once you get to know them. They are always there when you need them most. Flirting style may include helping you when you need it and letting you know all the "details" they've noticed about you. They may fold their lips when they like you. Their kissing style may involve various "pecks" to the lips, and they are surprisingly very sensual. They may gently brush your hair out of your face. They may fold anything that they see out of place.
You may relate to this description is you have Venus (planet of love and pleasure) in the 6th house (house of service and health). If you have planets in Taurus, Libra, or Pisces in your natal chart this may give you more Venusian energy.
Venus is a "benefic" planet, therefore even the "worst" placements for Venus can gain benefits. If you have positive aspects to Venus (trines or sextiles), planets in signs that Mercury agrees with such as Gemini, more Virgo, or Aquarius in your natal chart, Mercury is dignified by sign position, or is accidentally dignified by house position, you may have even more advantages to help you gain Venusian energy.
Virgo is a mutable sign and an earth sign.
Venus in Virgo Native:
Julia Roberts
Venus in Virgo Native:
Bruno Mars
Venus in Scorpio-The Scorpion of Venus
Venus+Scorpio=forbidden love Debility(-5)
The scorpion is an arachnid, which is the same animal classification as spiders. They are creatures that can probably be found alone in dark places, where they tend to feel most comfortable. The scorpion has always been a symbol of betrayal, death, and evil. They are also a symbol of sexuality because of their stinger's resemblance to that of genitals, as well as its ability to penetrate. The scorpion is not a social creature...in fact, other scorpions can be their main threat to survival. Only some species of the Scorpion can actually thrive around other scorpions...and even then there will always be tension and possibly aggression. When mating, they have various rituals that characterizes their form of courtship. Usually a male will grasp (or attempt to gasp) the females "pincers" (known as pedipalps), in order to attempt to mate with her. The ritual usually resembles a dance, as he moves her across a smooth surface. Usually female scorpions resist this and a "tussle" may ensue between the two. She may try to sting him, refuse to dance, or try to break away. He might generally try to "kiss" her on her "mouth parts" in order to appease her, and may even use his stinger to pacify her. After mating however, either they separate or she may begin to devour the male. When it comes to food, Scorpions can go months without eating...but when they do find food, they are advantageous hunters, resorting to eating even other scorpions.
Venus is obviously in detriment in the sign of Scorpio. Venus is the planet of love and pleasure...while Scorpio is the sign of passion, lust, and power. When Venus is in this sign, there is only darkness and a need for power. Venus feels uncomfortable in this sign, as this sign is driven only by chaos. Venus struggles to find love in a sign that has so many layers. Scorpio is a sign filled with hatred and other "inner demons", and yet now Venus is situated here. The natives with this position have one of the strongest conflict of natures: the craving for power, yet craving for love. Venus in Scorpio natives may desire love...and when they desire something, the desire is usually very deep. They may be obsessed with love, constantly trying to seduce interested ones toward them. And yet, they also have a deep need for power over themselves and others. This causes many conflicts in their personal relationships. Scorpio is ruled traditionally by Mars (typically a planet opposite Venus), as well as Pluto which is the planet of power and transformation. With these two energies blending their influence on this position, natives with this position have a strong need to conquer...and unfortunately it is directed towards love. Natives with this position may feel as if love is dangerous because of how weak it makes them feel on the inside. They may also attract dangerous lovers and friends simply because they have a need to challenege themselves and be "different". They tend to be attracted to things and people that most people don't like (and sometimes they hate what people generally do like). While they may genuinely want friends, they would still rather be alone than have friends that aren't genuine. While Venus is a sign that seeks beauty, the blend of Venus with Scorpio focuses more on the "ugly" or "dark" side of life and may even see this as more "beautiful". What is ironic is that while Venus in Scorpio natives despise superficiality, they can be very superficial, judging others based off of how they come across. They have the tendency to resist their loving feelings and they also resist love from others. This is because they are actually very vulnerable, and once they fall in love they become enwrapped in it. They are very much afraid of giving their heart to another and being betrayed in the end. They want to have power over their feelings as well as the feelings of others. Towards friends, they may be either very attached or very distant. There is usually an "all-or-nothing" quality about this position. They are not generally attracted to the norm, and so they tend to outcast themselves (or be outcasted) among other people. Females with this position tend to be the most resistant of suitors and making new friends. Even if they are sociable...there is often something very quiet or secretive about them. Once they like someone, they can often be controlling of their lovers and friends. The females can also be manipulative with their seductive powers, simply "using" others to get what they desire. Males with this position are also very controlling, especially of their lovers. They may seem as if they want their partners to worship them (or they tend to worship their partners). They become obsessed with having their lovers all to themselves. They are intense when they like someone and are highly insecure. All natives with this position are easily jealous of others...especially when around their lovers. Sometimes when they really like someone, they may mistakenly feel as if they "own" that person, even before actually being in a relationship with them. Sometimes when they give something, they use these things as a controlling mechanism, in the hopes that you will feel "indebted" to them and return their "feelings". And the more they give, the more they feel resentful if you do not return the same feelings for them as they do you. Because Scorpio is ruled by the planet Mars (a sexual planet), Venus in Scorpio natives often use sexual appetite as a means of controlling lovers (and even as a form of showing love). These are the type of individuals that confuse sexual desire with love. Sometimes they may desire sex from others, believing that this feeling is actually love. When building a relationship solely based on sexual desire, it can cause lovers to feel like objects for desire rather than actual human beings that these natives love. Natives of this position have a tendency to become addicted to dangerous substances such as drugs, drinking, sex, and even thrills. For these natives, they may often confuse pain with pleasure, and pleasure with pain. Venus in Scorpio natives must learn to respect the power of love. In fact, they must learn to let love take its course, releasing the need for power over others. The best way to do this is by setting aside your own desires and considering the desires of others. In order to have love, you must give love instead of being readily resentful. If you truly love someone, you have to be willing to let them go. Use your insightful abilities to understand why you have such a need to control your associates...going to the root of your issues can help you to be more understanding of people. If you want love, let down some of your barriers. Don't insist on being different just for the sake of being different...let your "unique" qualities be a positive influence on others. Do not betray your friends for the sake of power...learn to treat others the way you would like to be treated. They must avoid overcompensating for their lack of charm by either forcing others or manipulating others.
Even with planetary positions in detriment, there are always positives. Venus in Scorpios have powerful love energy. They give their all for the sake of your love, and this can be endearing to the right partners. They have strong seductive powers...a seduction that can change those around them on the inside. Yes, they become obsessed with lovers and friends...yet those around Venus in Scorpio natives become just as obsessed with the passion and desire of these natives. Their desire for love is inspiring to others and can even be a source of healing if channeled in the right ways. This is an energy that truly understands the outcasts because they are ones. Once you've earned their trust (and they've gained your trust), they make loyal and trusted friends. Because they understand the art of sex, they know how to give sexual pleasure. These natives do enjoy beautiful things, but they appreciate the depth of things (and individuals) so much more. Females of this position may be resistant at first, but deep down they are lusty and seductive, never wanting to let you go. Males with this position are also very seductive and passionate. They enjoy driving lovers mad with desire. Flirting style includes staring into your eyes (if you stare back they may look away), and they may "test" you by prodding into your life. Kissing style may be passionate, involving nibbling on your ear (or your neck). They may physically pinch you and/or squeeze you. They have a tendency to bite their lip when they like someone. They are easily jealous; they are especially jealous of powerful and unique individuals.
You may relate to this description if you have Venus (planet of love and pleasure) in the 8th house (house of death, transformation, taboos, debts, and inheritances). If you have planets in Taurus, Libra, or Pisces in your natal chart you may have more Venusian energy.
Venus is a "benefic" planet which means even the worst position for Venus may still be able to gain benefits. If you have positive aspects to Venus, Mars, or Pluto (sextiles/trines), planets in signs that Mars or Pluto agree with in your natal chart (Aries, Capricorn, Scorpio, or Leo); Mars or Pluto are dignified by sign position, or Venus, Mars, or Pluto is accidentally dignified by house position, then you may have even more advantages when trying to gain the benefits of Venus. While most men project the energies of Venus, because Scorpio is traditionally ruled by the planet Mars (a masculine planet), they may find it easier to embrace their own Venusian energies while it is positioned in Scorpio. Females, however, may feel more uncomfortable in "their own skin".
Scorpio is a fixed sign and a water sign.
Venus in Scorpio Native:
Ellie Goulding
Venus in Scorpio Native:
Drake
Venus in Aries-The Ram of Venus
Venus+Aries=impetuous love Debility(-5)
The ram in astrology represents energy, actions, and courage. Rams are highly brave and independent animals, able to walk on the edge of any cliff and always ready to take on anyone who challenge them. Sheep are social creatures, and they understand "leadership", which is usually the dominant female or the ram in the flock. However, they will sometimes follow "the leader" (or the sheep that moves first) of the group into dangerous territory. Rams often greet each other through slight aggression, sometimes head butting or kicking. And yet, the "lamb" is also characterized by affectionate energy. Just the stroking of the head can tame this animal. While mating behavior may vary among the various species of sheep, the best examples of how sheep mate can be found among the Bighorn Sheep. When mating, there is usually a competitive atmosphere. After the ram has fought off other competitors, he now begins to pursue the female...but not easily. (If the Ram is not persuant and an ewe is interested, she may pursue by arousing him by kicking him or running around him). After the Ram has been aroused, he must then "race" in order to catch her...and it could be up the very top of a narrow cliff that is the "finish line". If he "wins" and catches her, then mating can begin.
Venus is in detriment in the sign of Aries. Venus is the planet of love and pleasure. Aries is the sign of self, energy, and action. Venus is very uncomfortable here in Aries. Venus is in need of comfort and relaxation, but is struggling to calm down and relax in this sign. Venus is searching for love and to give love, but in this sign the energy is independent. Venus is alone, and yet burning with passion in this sign. Venus is struggling to be receptive in this sign and is impatient with building love. Natives with Venus in Aries tend to desperately want to be liked by others, and when they like someone (or something) they are highly energetic and enthusiastic about keeping them. But this enthusiasm can be short-lived...and this is because natives of this position have a strong need to be independent without constantly considering others. Thus, there becomes a conflict of natures, where the native wants love, but is very self-oriented. Venus in Aries natives want other people to like them and admire them. They tend to be the alpha of every social group, the lively one at every party; the loudest at every social event. They love attention! However, they are impatient with others, expecting people to tolerate even their rude tendencies. This is when Venus in Aries natives meet the strongest conflict between being considerate of others verses being themselves. Venus in Aries natives are impulsive when they are in love, falling in love at the first sight of an admirer or someone they admire. Everything happens fast with them, with them expecting sex on the first date and marriage after only a few months (or even weeks) of dating. (This varies according to gender or other energies in the chart). Yet, because they do everything so quickly, if things don't happen fast (or they've "conquered" every love level), they get bored and will move on to the next "love challenge". The biggest issue is that to them love is a challenege...and thus they attract very challenging situations to them. They inspire jealousy and a competitive spirit in their relationships, and this includes friendships. For them, rivalry over their affection is a form of love. They can be selfish in love, more concerned about what they are getting out of a relationship rather than how both parties can benefit. The sign of Aries is ruled by Mars (the planet of passion, aggression, and sexuality). These natives tend to confuse sexual desire with love, going only on their immediate impulses. Females with this position either fall in love easily or are always "playing hard to get". They can be self-centered and/or conceited, only concerned about what the relationship can offer THEM. They love when lovers fight over them and may even purposely start fueds between the ones who are interested in them. (They may also show their affections by "fighting" for their lovers). Males with this position are not the smoothest in their approach to relationships. They can be rude and obnoxious when they are interested in someone. They are daring flirts and they also love it when lovers compete for their affections. Venus in Aries males may always find themselves competing for the affections of a lover. All Venus in Aries can be a little dense when it comes to love. They don't seem to notice "hints" of attraction. You have to be open with them and don't beat around the bush or play mind games with them. They tend to spend impulsively on things they want. The sad part is they get bored with most of the things they buy! Venus in Aries natives must learn to be patient with others. Don't jump into situations without thinking things through. Beware of teasing suitors in order to get others to fight for you. This may not be proof of love. If natives of this position want love, they must learn to think about the love they have for others. Love is not a game...it is a dangerous thing to toy with. Don't spend money so impulsively...remember to consider your budget. These natives may have a bad habit of overcompensating for the lack of charm with passion. Females with this position may especially overcompensate their lack of "softness" by appearing feminine.
The upside to this position is they make fun and exciting lovers. They have strong sexuality, and easily excite the passions of others. Venus in Aries natives believe that in order to love another, you must love yourself. While they do struggle to make loyal and true friends, they will always love themselves. The benefit to being a friend or lover with these people is that they will always be themselves. Their behavior may seem rude at first, but once you get to know them it can be really endearing. They are leaders and courageous when it comes to making new friends. Many of them tend to be extremely popular or well-known because of their open personalities. When they admire someone, they may even "follow" for a change. They have a unique appreciation of beauty and art...they may enjoy the art of combat or a beautiful sword. They tend to be attracted to the loudest wardrobes or the brightest colors. They dare to be different in social situations, and may like people that may seem out of their league or social status. Women with this position may be a combination of extreme girliness to extreme tomboyishness. Regardless, they love to be original and are open about their feelings of love. And these women LOVE men. Even women who are lesbians appreciate masculinity. While other women may be shy (or reserved) in their approach to lovers they are interested in (or friends), Venus in Aries women are not afraid to meet new people. No matter how "feminine" these females are in their appearance, they always have a very assertive and strong demeanor. Males with this position are fun to be around and are just as eager to meet new people. They tend to be really popular with people. All natives with this position have a strong appreciation for sports or competitions, even if they are female. They love challenges (as long as it's for fun). While they can be selfish at times, when they love you they will always be quick to fight for you or defend you in some way. Flirting style is usually challenging and forward, choosing to flirt with you right "in your face" no matter what you are doing. They may also spread their legs open when in the presence of their "crush". They may not be able to keep their eyes off you, with a cocky smile and a gaze that seems ready to charge. They are also really playful. Kissing style is full of passion and energy, and they may give a little tongue action. Physically they may grab or even jump all over their love interests. Males with this position may attempt to "sweep you off your feet"...literally. They may lick their lips or they may even lick you when they are interested in someone. Venus in Aries natives are always jealous of others, especially of people who are strong and energetic like themselves. They can be really competitive in this regard.
You may relate to this description if you have Venus (planet of love and pleasure) in the 1st house (the house of self). If you have planets in Libra, Taurus, or Pisces in your natal chart, this may tame some of your energies.
While most men project the energies of Venus, because Aries is traditionally ruled by the planet Mars (a masculine planet), they may find it easier to embrace the energies of Venus while its positioned in Aries. Females, however, may feel more uncomfortable in "their own skin".Venus is a "benefic" planet, which means even the worst position for Venus can still gain benefits. If you have positive aspects (trines/sextiles), planets in signs that Mars agrees with (Aries, Scorpio, or Capricorn), Mars is dignified by sign position, or Venus/Mars is accidentally dignified by house placement, you may have even more advantages when trying to gain the benefits of Venus.
Aries is a cardinal sign and a fire sign.
Venus crosses through all 12 signs of the zodiac. For the sake of this website, I have focused mostly on the planets and the positions that they are dignified and debilitated in. However, through the debilities and dignities it can help us to understand the planets as well as the signs individually.
ATTENTION!!!!!! In Line with this article, at the bottom of this website is another one of our websites called MUSIC AND VENUS. That website explains how Venus influences our appreciation for the art of music! Be sure to check it out and enjoy! :)
Venus in Aries Native:
Rihanna
Venus in Aries Native:
Robin Thicke
